You just have to realise that sometimes, things wont go your way. This is a game of skill and luck. If you're skilled, you will win long term. But you will always have short term losses, that's hwo the game goes. So if your aces are broke by ace-9 offsuit, i think I can't say it better than Tom Dwan said it when he lost aces to kings in poker after dark "I will win 4 out of 5 times, this is the one out of 5, does not bother me".

So yea, that's my idea.