to get back to actually offering advice on the hand

you've hit ur set.. that was your goal.. that's a good flop texture to get guys to chase... so shove over his cbet... easy

u cant bet almost half ur stack.. that's just askin for trouble.. his raise range (assumed) hits this flop nicely.. hes not foldin a lot of hands and ur ahead.. so let him chase... so the board ran out bad.. oh well it happens, but not often... this play will show mad profit in the long run