Yeah, my preference is usually to be friendly and such. Makes for a more enjoyable experience. But then I've been at tables were there wasn't much chatting. Not so fun for me.

Plus, not a fan of carbon chat boxes. Seem to small that after a hand is over any chat is pushed off by new hand starting.

That being said, I've been known to egg others on just because it's fun. But never to the point where I'm reduced to using boring insults and bypassing chat censors.