This is why BRM is so important particularly if you mostly play tourneys.Cant remember which one but in one of the bigger named players books they say to expect to only win 10%-15% of the tourneys you buy in to.So you need to be prepaired to lose 85% of tourneys thus your bankroll needs to be big enough that when you lose it doesnt matter(like losing a penny when you have $1000).Now as for getting beat "every" time.Now I have been through some very cold runs(middle of one right now) but im sure that if you collected the data over a year you would find that your recieve:give on beats is probably fairly close if not you probably should look into playing a bit loser in position(In holdem it is my belief that almost any two can be played in position for a profit)